Raven at the dock in South Carolina (the one with the white hull).
Our NuWay rig and GMC pickup.
We are working hard
to get Raven ready for another spell of cruising. That means
we will have to pare down from our luxurious lifestyle in a NuWay 5th
wheel back to a bare bones lifestyle on the boat. There is a lot to
be said for both modes of living. In our travels, we have met several
boaters who were heading back to land for a “land yacht”. I've
yet to meet anyone at an RV park who was contemplating living on a
boat, but there may be someone out there yearning for blue water.
I've lived aboard
our 36 foot sailboat for seven years, and lived in the NuWay for
almost three years. Back in 2003, we made a four month road trip
towing a 17 foot trailer. Both the RV and boating lifestyles have
lots to recommend them, and both have lots of drawbacks.
Space
NuWay: We have
SPACE. Wow! Lots of space! We have three slides. You can swing a cat in the living room.
Raven: Very
little space below decks. Everything is stuffed everywhere it will
go. Hopefully you have pared down enough that everything is stowed
properly. But in the cockpit – you have the entire ocean around you
and the entire sky above you and generally not another person in
sight. This is not a shabby view, and makes the space inconvenience a
non-issue for me.
Multiple rooms
NuWay:
There are three different rooms in our RV (the living/kitchen
area, the bathroom, and the bedroom). I enjoy going from one to
another…I love the privacy afforded by closing doors.
Raven:
Basically one long room with a closed off head that is about the size
of a bookcase. So when you get mad at your spouse, you end up
steaming in very close quarters.
Light
NuWay: I love the
light. In the RV we have lots of windows and we have 100 watt bulbs
for reading, sewing, etc. The older I get, the more my eyes need this
help.
Raven: It
tends to be dark below (although our new white trim may help that).
If I want light, I sit in the cockpit. I spend most of my time in the
cockpit.
Conveniences
Nuway: Our RV has
'em!! I love the microwave. I can use all my electric kitchen
appliances. I simply wallow in the luxury of an on-board shower. I
truly enjoy my hanging closet. Making the bed is so incredibly easy.
Raven: No
closet. All clothes folded and on shelves or in boxes. No shower, per
se (okay we have one, but it's for desperate times). At the dock,
it's the public restrooms and public showers. The good news is, I
don't have to clean them. Making the v-berth? Ask David. He gets in
there with the sheets and struggles and curses and I stay out of his
way. I'm trying to think of a convenience on a boat and my ears are
smoking. Oh! We do have a refrigerator. No, actually, we don't. The
“refrigerator” is basically an electric ice box into which I can
wedge some perishables. Nope, no conveniences on a boat.
Housework
Both:
Although you wouldn't know it to hear me whine, there just
isn't much in the way of a space to clean. The bad news is, you
pretty much have to do it every day. But even if you have a slob
attack and don't look at it for a month, you can do the whole “house”
in about two hours.
You're not stuck
Both:
If you don't like the park, the location, or the neighbors,
you just move. Takes about an hour to pack up and an hour to unpack
and there you are in your new location. This is an advantage for
boats and RVs alike and it's a big advantage. It's a hard one to give
up when you're thinking of moving back to a house or an apartment.
Travel
Both: Yep. That's
the whole reason for both RVs and cruising boats for David and me. I
know there are people who like to rush around the bay with big
engines and people who like to fish, and people who like to meet
friends and party, and people who live in RVs because they travel
from one city to another for their jobs, but the only thing David and
I want to do is see the world.
Adventure
Nuway: Not so much.
Raven: Heavens, yes. Life is 3-D technicolor when you're cruising.
Scenic parking
Nuway: Nope. All
those ads you see with the RV parked next to a mountain lake? Forget
it. Unless you have a little bitty trailer, you end up in big RV
parks surrounded by other RVs. The view out your window is usually
another RV.
Raven: Scenic
“parking” when you are cruising is another story! No bad news
here. I can't tell you how beautiful everything is from the water.
Marinas tend to be to be parking lots, but we don't spend much time
in them.
Neighbors
Nuway: Your
neighbors run the gamut, from “full timers” (RV speak for
liveaboard) to vacationing retirees. Weirdly, our experience in RV
parks and even in National and State parks is that there is little of
the comraderie commonly found in a marina or among boaters when they
hook up. I suspect it's because RV-ers are still fighting traffic and
surrounded by too many people, while boaters are thrilled to see
someone after a couple of weeks of lone sailing. Maybe.
Raven:
Boaters are ridiculously friendly. Get togethers include raft-ups on
the water, clumps of boaters in any marina, folks stopping by to chat
on the dock...maybe it's because boaters are outside a lot, in their
cockpits, or sitting around in communal areas in the marina. How do
you make friends? You knock on the hull of your neighboring boat
(from the dinghy) and say hi.
Maintenance
Both:
Something is always going haywire and it always seems to cost
an arm and a leg if you can't fix it yourself. The RV service shops
we have encountered (this is only our experience) have done shoddy
work. We did have one contractor (not aligned with any RV center)
install new carpet and fix our flooring and he did a fine job. Marine
service can be similar. It's hard to find the local knowledge to know
who to hire when you arrive in a new place. It can be wildly
frustrating. And for sailors, even if you can fix your boat, you are
often in a remote location where you have to wait quite a while for
the widget you ordered to show up.
Traveling
Hazards
Nuway: In an RV, you
are basically pulling a building behind your pickup. You can't see a
thing behind you. The simple mass of the RV makes traveling at
highway speed terrifying. And there's always that idiot who pulls out
right in front of you with no clue as to how long it takes to stop
one of these behemoths. Ours is only 33 feet, but it takes about
three times its length to stop and that's slamming on the brakes.
Raven: On a
boat, you have to know what you're doing and you have to keep a sharp
eye out for those boaters who have no idea what they are doing, or
who are too blasted on brew to know which end is up. There are lots
of them, generally in small harbors. Weather is really, really
crucial. Interpreting forecasts is vital to safety. “Traffic” on
the ocean consists of enormous container ships that have no idea you
are out there. 24-7 watch is imperative.
Fantasies
Both: I hope I am
not the only one, but I sort of have this fantasy that life on the
road/water won't plague me with stuff I hate doing, like cleaning
house, being bored, paying bills, feeling blue, being bitchy, etc. No
such luck. In fact, in a tight space, you tend to be face to face
with all those annoyances you could avoid on land. It's all there,
right with you, wherever you go, and regardless of whether you're in
an RV or a boat.
So, which is better?
I guess we vote boat. If you are in search of a good RV, let us know.
Ours will be for sale soon and it's in great shape, thanks to my
amazing husband.